I am back !!!!!!

Hello Dear Ones,

You might be wondering where this lady went off without blogging..Am I guessing right?

I have gone to India all of sudden and I was not able to blog anything.. But I enjoyed my two months trip to India a lot and I am back to Malaysia now(Not exactly now..It was last week but I was busy with my house work and office work.. 😦 )

Ooh..I forgot to tell..Belated Happy Christmas and Happy New Year..Have loads of loads of fun in 2014 (My bad ..I am saying all belated wishes)…  Lastly Happy Chinese New Year 2014.

Here in Malaysia, Chinese New Year will be celebrated for two days and it is 31/1 and 1/2 of 2014..I think you have guessed it by now..Tomorrow is a HOLIDAY… 🙂

So I end this post here and will come back very soon as I have lots of things to share.

Take Care..Bye.. 🙂 🙂

P.S:  Thank you for all the ones who visited my blog even when there is no updates and I am really sorry for all the posts that mentioned about my blog as I was not able to thank you for the same.  For sure I will visit all your blogs.



My problem with traditional desi marriage

Portrayed beautifully about arranged marriages and the perception of bride’s parents..

Love, InshAllah

Eds. Note: This is a response to yesterday’s guest post, How I met my son’s mother. Have a perspective to share on love and relationships? Read our guidelines, here.

Update 11/26/13: Congratulations to writer Aisha Saeed on this post being chosen by the editors of WordPress for Freshly Pressed, highlighting the best posts on WordPress. In an email to, WordPress said: “Aisha Saeed’s response to your guest post about arranged marriages was a really powerful and articulate call for fairness and equality. She delivers her points with a great balance of passion and reason, which makes this piece engaging even for those who aren’t intimate with the debate surrounding marriage in south Asian communities. It’s a great post that deserves a wider audience.”



There’s a befuddling conundrum afoot in the desi (South Asian) community. You must first understand a few things:

a) For whatever reason…

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